On Saturday, October 4th, I’m sitting in a Limousine with 10st 15-year-olds on my way to Ivanna’s Sweet fifteen party at Münchenbryggeriet Södermalm. Their energy and zest for life remind me of when I was the same age, my first crush, my boyfriend, and my whole life waiting to be lived.
In Peru, they celebrate the girl’s development from child to senorita, so wonderful to experience that tradition in a world where girls are often suppressed and hidden, here they instead highlight “the woman is the most important person in the family”.
Ivanna’s mother Cathalina sent an explanatory text when I asked for information about the tradition:
Quinceañera traditions celebrate a girl’s 15th birthday, which marks her transition from childhood to womanhood, and also brings with it the hope of giving new life to the family in the future. The celebration includes a festive reception and various symbolic rituals.
.
Mom Cathy writes to me:
Important Quinceañera Traditions
1. Reception:
The celebration usually begins at the family home, where the girl, along with her family and maids of honor, receive blessings and gifts. This ceremony symbolizes gratitude and marks the girl’s commitment to her faith and family.
2. Court of Honor:
The quinceañera chooses a group of maids of honor, usually made up of friends and family members, called damas (bridesmaids) and chambelanes (marshals). The traditional number can vary, but common sets are 14 damas and 14 chambelanes, or smaller groups.
3. Symbolic Gifts:
During the ceremony, the quinceañera may receive various gifts, such as a tiara, a cross, a rosary, which symbolize her new responsibilities as a young woman. One significant tradition is the “Last Doll,” which represents the end of her childhood.
4. Shoe Change:
An emotional moment occurs when the father or other important male figure changes the girl’s shoes from flats to high heels, symbolizing her transition to adulthood.
5. Quinceañera Waltz:
The celebration includes a choreographed waltz, which usually begins with a father-daughter dance and is followed by dances with others from the maid of honor. This dance is a highlight of the reception and is usually rehearsed in advance.
6. The Party:
Now the festive reception begins with food, music, and dancing. This party is a grand affair with family and friends, and often resembles a wedding in both size and formality.
